Rabu, 28 November 2012

zahra n hejab

it's my daughter zahra..she just turned 7 last august. and you know how fast children grow..it's like in a blink they suddenly have become teens..

either to the girls and the boys, they'll have their own particular religion consequencies. for instance, for the muslim girls, at certain age, their religion ordered them to veil up (put on hejab/covering).


as a mom with a daughter, i've been concerning about this matter since long. not to mention, my kid has her own difficulties. as a kid with autism disorder, she has issue with the sensory. let alone to put the hejab on her head..i could barely decorate her hair with any kind of ribbon on her head when she was younger.

but 2 months before her 7th birthday, i decided to get her used to hejab by always putting hejab on her whenever we go outside. it was a battle at first, really. i put the hejab on her and not less than 5 minutes she took it off..it kept going like that for weeks..
but the mercy from Allah just never stops. on eid day we were having a gathering with relatives. as we all have understood, the mahrams from the opposite gender of us are only our siblings, beside our parents and other certain people (u can have a look in surah annisa, 24;31  for a better explanation). so, eventhough we are all relatives, but many of us are non mahram to others.

me and my family were hosting the gathering. and when the first guest came, it was my hubby's uncle and his sons, zahra wasnt wearing her hejab yet. and in hurry, zahra ran to her room and put on her hejab before she came back in the living room and met the guests...it's completely beyond our expectation.. it looks like slightly she seems to understand the concept of covering..alhamdulillah..


i'm really proud of her :)

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